July 2025 ยท 8 min

Why the Mountains (According to Society, I'm Wrong)

People ask me why I go to the mountains.
They say it politely, like a concern.
But what they really mean is:
"Why aren't you playing the same game as us?"

Why don't you stay back,
buy a bigger house,
a second car,
a third EMI,
and a lifetime supply of stress tablets?

Why climb mountains
when you can climb LinkedIn titles?

Fair question.

See, the mountains have a funny habit.
They don't care how much money you make.
They don't ask where you studied.
They don't clap when you arrive.

They just look at you and say,
"Can you breathe? Good. Keep walking."

Down here, people feel safe because their life is "set."
Up there, life is set for exactly one thing: the next step.
Everything else is optional.

In the city, you can fake strength.
In the mountains, your legs expose you in ten minutes.

In the city, confidence comes from opinions.
In the mountains, confidence comes from knowing
you won't panic when things go wrong.

And things always go wrong.

The mountains can kill you.
No warning.
No drama.
No apology.

That's not scary.
That's honest.

People talk about certainty like it's a retirement plan.
The mountains remind you that certainty is a story you tell yourself
to sleep better at night.

One slip.
One bad decision.
One weak lung.
Game over.

Funny how that makes life clearer.

Up there, ego doesn't get Wi-Fi.
Status has no oxygen.
And money is just paper you forgot at home.

You learn quickly what actually matters:

Your body

Your mind

Your ability to stay calm when things don't go your way

Everything else is noise with better branding.

So no, I don't go to the mountains because I hate life.
I go because they remove the bullshit.

They don't motivate you.
They don't validate you.
They don't care about your excuses.

They just show you who you are
when nothing is cushioning the fall.

And once you've felt that,
the idea of feeling "safe"
inside a bloated routine
starts to feel like the real risk.

That's why the mountains.

Not everyone needs them.
But the people who do
stop trying to explain it.